Next month on February 21st, The LGBT Equality Alliance of Chester County (LGBTea) is hosting its annual gala, The Disco Ball: Boogie and Bling, at the Desmond Hotel in Malvern.
Each year, we honor a member or group within our community with the prestigious Community Partner Award.
In 2024, we were thrilled to present the award to Free Mom Hugs Pennsylvania - Philadelphia Chapter.
Free Mom Hugs is not just an organization; it’s a movement of love, compassion, and unwavering support. Throughout the 2023, they were a constant, uplifting presence at every LGBTea event, regardless of its size.
Whether offering hugs of all types, kind smiles, fist bumps, or even high waves (because hugs aren’t for everyone), the volunteers of Free Mom Hugs make you feel seen, valued, and embraced. Their dedication to showing up and inspiring others is why they were so deserving of this recognition.
But what drives this incredible group? What inspires these volunteers to give so selflessly of their time and love? To find out, I had the opportunity to interview three amazing huggers: Cindy, Jenn, and Kate.
The Heart of Free Mom Hugs
For Jenn, the journey began with her daughter’s coming out. “I’m not great with words, but I can fight with what I have—love and positivity,” she shares.
Cindy also found her way to Free Mom Hugs as a way to channel fear and uncertainty into pride and celebration. “It gave me a way to connect with others and show up for the community. It’s been life-changing.”
Kate, a queer mother herself, joined Free Mom Hugs to give back after her own challenging coming-out experience. “I didn’t have the support I needed in my late teens. Now, I want to ensure others feel celebrated and loved.”
Memories that Stay with You
Cindy recalls the moment at her first Pride event when someone yelled, “The moms are here!” and people ran to her for hugs. “It was a spark of joy mixed with the poignant emotions of those who needed love.”
The most unforgettable moments for Jenn, are when someone collapses into her arms, overwhelmed by the feeling of being truly seen.
Kate shared a touching memory of a nonverbal autistic teen who hugged her—a gesture his mother said he had never done with anyone else. “These moments remind us why we do what we do,” she says.
The impact of their work is felt deeply, not just by those they hug but by the huggers themselves.
More than Just Hugs
The mission of Free Mom Hugs extends far beyond physical embraces. “We’re here year-round, whether it’s attending weddings for those without family support, helping school GSAs, or offering pom-poms as portable hugs,” Cindy explains.
Jenn adds, “Even if you’re not a hugger, you can still make a difference. A smile or a wave can mean just as much.” Kate echoes this, emphasizing that love comes in many forms.
Join us at The Disco Ball
This year, we’re excited to once again honor a deserving member of our community with the Community Partner Award, and this year, we’ve added the Outstanding Volunteer Award. Who will receive these recognitions? Find out by joining us at The Disco Ball: Boogie and Bling!
-Taylor Jade